Too Late?

I signed divorce papers and still love him.  But, then again, I could still see myself without him.  I could see us together again at some point if he gets his life put together.  I have a lot going on right now, a lot of good things and some bad.  Someone stole my purse at work yesterday.  I have a few really good friends who are there for me when I need it.  And yet, I am incredibly lonely sometimes.  Where is a good place to meet people?